Happy And Successful Married Life

In this 21st century we are facing a lots of changes in our culture and our life systems. Respect for marriage life has decreased and divorce rate has increased. Getting divorce is not a solution to any of these problems as you may face the same problems even if you marry again. Understanding the values of marriage and adjusting to its rules will help solving these problems. There are some simple tips to keep your married life lively and successful. We shall discuss them...

1. The basic and simple tip is tell or show your partner that you love them, everyday.


2. Be ready to apologize for your mistakes. There is nothing to feel ashamed in between partners.
   
3. Say "Thank you" even for small help you get from them and appreciate when they do something for you ( wife cooking for your friends or husband cleaning your house for you).


4. Sometimes even small sacrifices will make your partner feel special about you( like allowing him to watch his favourite sport sacrificing your series or taking her to her favorite restaurant sacrificing your choice).


5. Give small sweet surprises now and then (cook his favorite dish or buy some flowers for her).
   
6. Share your happiness and sorrows with each other. Make a note of sharing your daily incidents.
   
7. Never ever point out their mistakes in front of others. This might hurt them greatly.


8. Whatever arguments or fights you might have, settle it down before you go to bed or if it continues until late night come to an agreement to discuss it later and go to bed peacefully.


9. You can discuss any matters but don't lead it to an argument and winning a fight is not that important than your partner.
   
10. Don't use the word 'Divorce' even for fun.
    
11. Try to spend some valuable time especially for your loving partner. Go out once in a week and spend your own time together.
    
12. Don't try to dominate or force your ideas, because each of us have different thoughts. Give respect to each other's thoughts.
    
13. Don't let your sexual life fail because of your busy work. Talk freely and take care of each others desires.
    
14. Always try to impress your partner (like dressing well) as you do in the earlier periods of marriage. Don't make them feel bored or tired of marriage life.
    
15. Always treat your partner as your friend with mutual respect and care.